It is a very thin margin which makes a wide gap between successful and struggling person. While we can not overrule the hidden hand of the almighty, the apparent reason for the chasm is discipline and time management. Though for some, the parental guidance at the initial stage is required but ultimately it is the individual who should have the inner strength, character and resolve as his essential companions and team mates.
We don't live in bungalows, duplexes or flats. We live in our mind which is an unlimited area. Life is great when things are sorted and uncluttered there. The key factor to performing well in life and in every arena, is the ability to control the quality and quantity of your "internal dialogue". Performance is potential minus internal interference. Live in peace, not in pieces.
Moreover, always remember "UBUNTU"..... the African philosophy which means I AM WHAT I AM BECAUSE OF WHO WE ALL ARE...: Empathy and respect for diversity are the core values that help us to grow as an individual.